You are the one who owns the control seat.
Sure, there are situation in life where you delegate part of this power, consciously or unconsciously.
If you are a teenager or young adult, you parents often give you strong guidance and directions.
If you work in an organization, you accept to work within an infrastructure with a very specific balance of power.
Now, when it comes to life choices, nobody but you owns the right to decide what you want to do next.
It is your birth right to have control over your life and the more you express this power, the better you tend to feel.
Expression your power is empowering.
Sounds obvious when you pout it like that, right?
The trick is that sometimes, people or other influences tell you what to do.
They try to decide for you.
This is wrong! It is 100% wrong!
It is wrong especially if you never consciously gave them right to take life decisions for you.
It is your life and you are the one who owns it.
If you are unsure of what to do next, you can of course ask for advice or even ask someone to take some steps for you if you can't.
What matters is that you do all this consciously.
If you don't want to own the key choices of your life, it is okay to delegate these choices if you want to.
If, however, you feel like you miss control over what happens to you, it is often the reflection of an unbalance of power.
Somewhere along the line you might have given away power in various forms without actually realizing it.
You might be 30+ and still behave like your parents have to decide for you.
Or you might be in a relationship and let your partner limit your choices, actions and dreams.
There can be dozens of life situations where you can reconquer your territory.
This means one thing:
You decide!
You are in charge!
Always remember this when your life comes to a point where you have to take key decisions or set up a long term life line for yourself.
Take care and stay in touch
Francisco